Orgasms for Peace.

If I do one thing in my life, my daughters will understand that sex is not a spectator sport and my sons will understand that the clitoris is not an optional visit. I know that may seem like a shallow life goal but I believe otherwise.

During sex we are the most in touch with our bodies, the most animal we can possibly be. Sex is 99% of the media. It creates life.  Let's agree that it's influential, quite possibly the most influential thing in our society.

The problem is, this amazing and liberating act, usually revolves around men, or at least they believe it to at first. They think their dicks decide when it begins and ends, and women let them. We are afraid to speak up for our fucking sexual satisfaction because we've been taught that it's shameful, we've been taught our dismal place as a receptacle. I say this based on my own experience, my close friends experiences' and things seen and heard in the media.

The act that creates life and makes us distinctly alive (typically) revolves around a penis, SO NO FUCKING WONDER men believe this translates everywhere. No fucking wonder their needs, wants and determinations are spoken and heard before ours. They've been playing this part their whole lives and we have to unlearn what we've been taught to be sorry for.

This is the core of sexism. When and only when, sex becomes widely known as being equality about a clitoris and a penis, will we be on our way.


***For you and all of your sisters, please start demanding orgasms. Every time.***